Sunday, September 30, 2012

Funerals


I officiated at a funeral this week.  From a personal view, I think that funerals, in the American “tradition” are normally bleak and a bit depressing.  Most of the time the words used encourage people to spiral to a belief that we all are not worthy.

When I officiate a funeral, for me, it is about helping the family see the strengths, goodness and character (however flawed he/she may be perceived) of their loved one.  It is about reminding them to recall good times, their favorite times and those memories that allow them to part a smile on their lips.  It is about coming together to pay respects to someone who helped them in their journey of life.

It is important that the families be given the very best possible chance to being their grieving process by giving them space to do it with dignity, strength and love.

I enjoy officiating funerals as much as I do weddings.  It is the sense of duty, understanding and yes love for each family that I am able to connect with.  And, if I have done my job well, they connect with too.

I am Chaplain Royal Bush, and I enjoy helping people.




We can be the change we seek in this world, and in ourselves. 
One day.  One journey.  One person, at a time.
May peace, love and compassion be with you…AND from you!

Rev. Royal D. Bush is the founder of Inclusive Life, where he serves as a multifaith Chaplain.  He shares this message to all: “You are beautiful, you are loved and you are worthy, just the way you are.”  He holds a Bachelor Degree in business administration. He studied at Andersonville Theological Seminary.  He holds a current certificate of spiritual counseling with the International Institute of Faith Based Counseling and is a member of Spiritual Directors International.  He actively volunteers and remains active in many social justice issues.

Contact me:
402-575-7006
3622 Leavenworth Street Omaha, NE 68105

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