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TYPES OF BREAK UPS

Not all break ups are the same. Different break ups may create different emotions such as, deep sadness and depression, anger or maybe even belief. Here are the three different classifications:

1. You’re the one who’s breaking up – This type of break up is obviously the easiest and it will give you little, if no trouble at all to get over. The decision will make you feel better, fresher than being in the relationship.

2. The partner decided to break up – This is the hardest type of break up, since the other part chose to break up and you are left to pick up the pieces.  This is the main subject of this article.

  

3. Mutual parting.  This happens when the parties have mutually agreed to go their separate ways. This is the best and the rarest type of break up, where the individuals care about the feelings of the other and they reason and openly discuss.

Knowing what type of break up you’re going through, will help you come to terms with the idea and will help you in starting to get over it. It’s not so plain sailing, since you may over and over again, go through the uncertainty and you may ask yourself why the two of you are apart.

Most of the time we can determine that a breakdown in one of these three areas helped to contribute the most to breaking up... Lack of communication.  Lack of commitment.  Lack of compromise.  Which did your lack?  One, two or all three?  Maybe it was communication for one of you and compromise for the other?

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