Hi, I am Chaplain Royal. You are welcome. These posts contain stories, messages, quotes, photos, and many other elements of things of the heart, spirit, life, faith and health. I believe all living beings are beautiful, loved and worthy, just as they are. I believe religion is like a library, take the books you need, leave the rest. The books that each of us need are different; at different times in our life (and that is ok!)
Thursday, July 14, 2011
Kindness
Tuesday, July 12, 2011
R R R
Monday, June 13, 2011
Thank Goodness it is Monday (TGIM)
Sunday, June 12, 2011
People
I am not the same person today that I was 20 years ago. There were times in my life that I didn't find displeasure in letting others know I have something they don't, I have something better than they do, I can do something they can't and if I helped them I let them know how much it cost to help them.
It does not take a rocket scientist or great mathematician to know that sometime soon, that behavior would “crash!” And it did! I got “hit” with a 2x4, kind of like Fred Sanford saying “hey you big dummy!” You have so much to offer, you were raised better than this, you WILL be the person you are destined to be!
People who didn’t look like me, smell like me, dress like me, acted like me, talked like me were no longer objects of labels, judgements or ridicule. They began to be questions to me. Who are you? Where did you come from? What is your life like? And many others.
I learned that those who are at war with others are not at peace with themselves. I can be the change that I seek in this world. One lesson, one experience and one moment in time.
I offer this following Sunday morning prayer/meditation “Define source of love, light and life we give thanks for the many life lessons that have been bestowed upon our life journeys. For those living in darkness let them have light to see where they walk. For those who walk without love let the light warm them to know love and for those who are lost on the journey let them know they are beautiful, loved and worthy and not alone.” Amen.
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Wedding and Ceremony Officiants
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Saturday, June 11, 2011
Saturday
Good morning friends, family and world. I was without computer yesterday, I missed you all! I hope all is well today for you and your family.
Speaking of family, last night I had an "ah-ha" moment. We invited 4 other couples for dinner. This was not a random you call come dinner, but 4 other specific couples were inivted for a reason. One couple is fairly new to the group. They are in a newly formed relationship. It is amazaing watching each of them grow and change, I am glad that they are a part of something so amazaing... relationship!
Speaking of relationship. I have spoke before about a "family of friends." I have friends all across this contienent. I also have people who although not related by blood we are related by everthing else that symbolizing a family unit.
The three remaining couples... One couple has almost reached their 1 year anniversary. Both learning, having fun and growing through some difficult life journeys. Before they left last night we had a converstion about some of all of that. We closed by sharing some heartfelt words and joining in prayer, for me it was most meaingful, authentic and healing. An other couple facinates me. They seem so uncomplicated dispite what ails them. I am in awe of their automatic ease in which they live their life. They seem to "stand" through any challenge and they keep smiling. I congratulate their life experience and am glad to call them family.
Speaking of challenge, the last couple. We stood up for them when they were married in church. It was one of the biggest honors I could have been given. We shared some challenges in the last year that didn't bring us together it actually allowed us to grow a part. At times I was just fine with that. As I continue to learn, experience and readust things make sense. As I get older, my mom gets smarter... LOL. These two people mean a great deal to me, and realized last night how much they loved me (us) AND that anything that kept us from being in right relationship with each other, was trivial, small, and insignificant. As I tried to explain some of this as they left I was choked up enough where I could not talk. I was given a known wink, look and hug. In that moment I felt love, gladness and family. Again. A lesson in love by family, with family and for family.
As we travel through our lifes journey, we will encounter hurdles, mountains (coming down and going up!), and a river or two. A few thing will get you through any of it. Compassion. Commitment. Communication. Prayer/Meidation. I know I add the last... family. Albert Einstein had this right... "Rejoice with your family in the beautiful land of life!"
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Inclusive Life is very proud to be a member of “All About Weddings”, a local organization focusing on bringing together premier local vendors that provide wedding services.
Inclusive Life is a member in good sanding with American Association of Wedding Officiants. We also partner with other industry experts like Wedding Wire, Eventective, Gathering Guide, Decidio, Wedding Manor, WedPlan, and My Wedding to provide networking abilities for those selecting officiating services as well as other ceremony services.
www.inclusivelife.org
Inclusive Life Wedding Officiants-Premarital Coaching-Funeral Ministers
www.2grooms2brides.com
2 Grooms 2 Brides Same Sex Weddings for Council Bluffs, Iowa
www.weddingsinomaha.org
Religious and Nonreligious Weddings in the Omaha area
www.weddingsinlincoln.org
Religious and Nonreligious Weddings in the Lincoln area
www.weddingsincouncilbluffs.org
Religious and Nonreligious Weddings in the Council Bluffs area
www.spiritualfriendsofnebraska.org
Spiritual Friends of Lincoln Nebraska worship & fellowship
www.funeralministers.org
Inclusive Life Funeral Ministers serving Eastern Nebraska and Western Iowa
www.ceremonyofficiants.org
Wedding and Ceremony Officiants
www.allaboutweddings.com
All About Weddings
Thursday, June 9, 2011
Thursday
Wednesday, June 8, 2011
Wednesday
Tuesday, June 7, 2011
Tuesday
Sunday, June 5, 2011
Love, Truth, Life...
Saturday, June 4, 2011
Saturday, something to think about
Friday, June 3, 2011
Change
We can be the change we seek in this world!
Are we not here to help each other?
Surely we are not to just sleep, work, eat.
We all have time to share, even if an hour.
We all have talent to share, we all have gifts.
We all have treasure to share, belongings or monetary.
What have you shared? What are you sharing? What will you share?
Helping each other is helping ourselves!